Relationship Advice for Rules Girls

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You've read The Rules books for relationship advice,
but need help doing them. We've got the answers
and support you need in one convenient place.
Our relationship advice offers you all the details and specifics on how to be the DreamGirl men love to chase.

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Being a DreamGirl or Creature Unlike Any Other, who follows The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider can get confusing. We understand because the same thing happened to us.

That's WHY we created this site, to help ourselves and other women apply The Rules in our daily lives. We go into DETAIL about HOW to apply The Rules in real life-
the RIGHT way!

We go deeper than the authors to explain WHY The Rules work. Our treasure chest of sparkly, DreamGirl tools includes the following and more!...

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We offer tutorials and scripted responses for common dating situations with men. All this, in one convenient place on the web. We've been where you are and offer our help, support, relationship advice, love and encouragement and the collective wisdom of the lessons and secrets we've learned in our own personal journeys with men and dating.

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At DatingDreamGirl.com we provide a step-by-step manual for your transformation from Doormat to DreamGirl. So, dive into our sparkly toolbox of DreamGirl answers and solutions and get ready to begin your transformation.

"Will he still marry me if I break The Rules? Maybe yes, but most likely no. So why take the chance?"-Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

Shellen say, "The Rules is not a hobby. It's a religion."-Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

"For the best results, do The Rules AS WRITTEN!"-Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

My opinion is and I discover that again and again.

The Rules are true. Like the sun rising in the morning and setting in the evening.

the Rules are the martial arts of dating.

Online Dating for Rules Girls. Why You Should Do It and How To Be Successful.
Online Dating the DreamGirl Way. Do it NOW! Stop hanging back and join the party! Online Dating is quick, easy, and a great way to meet nice men, maybe even your Mr. Right!

DATING ADVICE, TIPS, SUPPORT, ENCOURAGEMENT, AND RESOURCES FOR DREAMGIRLS.
Dating Advice, Relationship Help, Tips, Support, and Resources for DreamGirls. Find the answers you need FAST in our sparkly treasure chest of dating advice, relationship tips and resources.

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Online Dating the DreamGirl Way Do it NOW!

Stop hanging back and join the party! Online Dating is quick, easy, and a great way to meet nice men, maybe even your Mr. Right! Everybody's cyber dating these days. In fact MILLIONS of single, eligible men from all walks of life, in all shapes and sizes are genuinely searching for quality relationships through internet dating sites. It's easy, inexpensive and accessible at YOUR convenience. As a DreamGirl, we do Online Dating differently from most women. The Rules for women dating men in cyberspace are clear and strict. Why? Because this helps us weed out undesirable men who are merely using online dating as a means to WASTE time.
We have a specific approach to meeting men online that filters for men who ACTUALLY want to meet and date real women in real life. As DreamGirls, we don't waste time with men and dating. And just like in real life, we require men online to treat us with dignity and respect. And if they don't? Simple. DELETE. NEXT.

Think of internet Dating as another social outlet. It's a way of getting out more only you don't have to leave your house! You have everything to gain-fun dates with nice men- and NOTHING to lose. All you need is an internet connection and a scanned photo. Your Mr. Right may ALREADY be online looking for YOU! Ready? Great. Let's get started. Whether you've already got active online personals profiles or are just getting started, we'll help you do it right for the BEST results. As DreamGirls, we do everything carefully and in small steps. We've broken down ALL the aspects and details of how to be successful into specific, step-by-step lessons. From what photo to use, or where to get one taken, to how to write your DreamGirl online profile, everything you need to be successful at Online Dating is here for you as part of your sparkly, DreamGirl toolbox!

We've even reviewed the BEST Online Dating sites for you! We've tried them and we tell you which ones we recommend and which ones we don't and WHY. And get tips for your online dating profile too!

You're a wonderful, beautiful woman and any man would be LUCKY to meet you just the way you are! Believe it! It's TRUE! Just click on any of the below topics that interested you for more, in-depth, step-by-step instruction on how to put your best Cinderella slipper forward in the world of Online Dating. Good men are waiting to meet you!

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The DreamGirl Online Profile. Writing A Good Online Profile Attracts Better Men.

Strike a balance when writing your online dating profile. Writing a good online profile means it should be attractive but NOT sexual, emotional or romantic.
The first thing to consider for your online profile is your Username. Your Username and photo will be the first thing to grab a man's attention. So no boring id’s like "Jane 2256"-save that for your home or office. Your screen name should be anonymous yet physically descriptive. Usernames help men build a visual picture.

So write your Username in Bold or CAPITAL letters, think of two or three words that fit your physical description or best feature. Here’s some good examples:

•DazzlingSmile36 •GreenEyedLady54 •RadiantRedhead26 •TallBlonde44

Don’t invite sex pests by writing "SexonLegs," "BustyBlonde" or "BootyBaby." You’re a DreamGirl right? DreamGirl’s don’t need to sell themselves in this way. As a DreamGirl, writing a good online profile means conveying your prestige, confidence and self-esteem. You want nice, quality men to email you-men who are genuinely looking to meet and date women in real life.

You want your Username to be light and breezy, a real breath of fresh air, yet physically descriptive. All men have a 'type' of woman they prefer. Your Username and your photo helps attract men who like YOUR "type."

Sometimes you will be asked to fill out a banner headline or tagline. A short blurb to give an extra taster of yourself. Once again it’s the same rule of thumb, nothing too heavy, sexual or romantic. You want to show that you’re a happy-go-lucky, healthy, feminine lady with a real zing for life who doesn't spend much time online. Writing a good online profile as a DreamGirl means you convey that your life is busy and fun already.

You could use a hobby to describe yourself, such as "Outdoor Girl Loves Fresh Air and Adventure." Something fun, light and breezy. DON'T put "Desperate Housewife seeks Soul mate." Good men will RUN from that. Don’t be too emotional-it will scare men away. Don’t put something like "No Time Wasters or Players" either. DreamGirls are POSITIVE :-) You don’t want to come across as a man-hater (even if that’s how you feel inside). DreamGirls always convey a friendly, positive and upbeat energy when writing a good online profile, even in their tagline.

The next stage will be your actual profile. Some dating sites want you to put a long description. My advice is to keep it to the very minimum wording. Always keep your description short and very sweet. Don’t get into a twist about writing it, some women write an epic only leaving out only what they had for breakfast that morning! Men find this boring and a sign of desperation and neediness in women.

Think about when you're browsing through profiles, do you have the time or even inclination to read through a long, usually boring blurb? No! So the same goes for DreamGirls when writing a good online profile.

You want your online profile to be interesting and truthful but leaving the man wanting more.

Here’s a good profile:

RedHeadBeauty36:

"Hi there, I’m 36, 5 ft 8” and weigh 63 kilos(139 lbs.). I live in Edinburgh. I’m single and have a BA in Public Relations. I workout regularly and value that in others. I’m fun, honest and easygoing and I love hill climbing, running, dancing, travel and the arts. Indian and Italian foods are my favourites. I’d like to meet a man who is single, fun and kind with that all-important GSOH between the ages of 35 – 45."

Remember to be honest with your appearance and age. There is no point in lying about something when you will meet that person face to face.

When writing a good online profile, don’t sound desperate in your ad, such as "I’ve tried everything to meet Mr. Right. Now I’ve resorted to OLD!” It will repel any sane man away. Basically your description should be light and breezy too.

Some dating profiles ask you how much you earn and how much you want your partner to earn. If possible leave this blank. You don’t want some sponger clamping onto you or for you to sound like a gold digger.

If the site asks what type of relationship you're looking for leave it blank OR pick the most neutral box, e.g. friendship. Dating online for DreamGirls is the same as dating in real life. Less is more and we always remain mysterious.

Writing a good online profile includes the all important deal clincher, the photo. This will be the number 1 reason he will check you out and choose to send you an email. The photo is the delicious nectar that attracts the bee, so you’ve got to get it right.

YOU MUST POST A PHOTO! Otherwise it's like going to a party with a bag over your head.

Select a clear, flattering head shot, one where you are showing your dazzling smile.

If you can afford it, get your photo taken professionally; after all you’re an investment, right?

You can also post one other full-length photo, but that’s it. Don’t set up a picture gallery. Don’t have other people in the photo with you. Don’t be a dot in the distance. Don’t wear sunglasses. And lastly don’t post a picture of Angelina Jolie. I think the guys may know it’s not you!!!

Less is ALWAYS more when writing a good online profile. Keep it short, positive, upbeat and leave men wanting to know more about you.

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Dating Advice, Relationship Help, Tips, Support, and Resources for DreamGirls.

Find the answers you need FAST in our sparkly treasure chest of dating advice, relationship tips and resources.
Simply choose one of the below links to dive into our DreamGirl treasure chest of relationship advice, help and answers:

The Art of Letting Go, by DawnieDiablo
Metamorphosis: Becoming a DreamGirl, by Girl in the Curl
For the sake of distinguishing between information versus disinformation, I'd like to make a very serious point:

"Bootcamp strict" is not any strange, aberrant, fundamentalist, ultra-conservative version of The Rules.

Bootcamp style dating advice IS The Rules. As written. And as practiced by Sherrie and Ellen.

Based on information gathered through private consultations with Shellen (thank you, Jagsurfs), the advice Shellen give is just as, if not even MORE strict, than what is being advised here in Bootcamp. I would wager that Shellen's advice has consistently been on par with what is advised by we Bootcampers. Oftentimes I'm surprised it's stricter.

So to say that one practices The Rules - but not "bootcamp strict" - is utterly misleading for women who are trying to learn the protocol and really sticking to them.

It's dilution of the truth, and it causes a lot of confusion for women who are trying to turn their lives around with the empowerment and self-esteem The Rules provides.

Shellen say, "The Rules is not a hobby. It's a religion."

Play it to win, Butterflies.

- by Girl in the Curl on ThirdAge

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What Men Want From Women

Captivating a man's heart and keeping the romance alive requires remaining light and breezy and reminding him of your shiny side!

What men want from women they date, love and marry are really the simplest things of all! But far too often, a woman forgets to offer these mesmerizing simplicities and finds her man pulling away and starting to distance himself from her emotionally!

#1 SMILING-Flash it, Baby! Upper Shoal aerial view

Smiling is REALLY important! Do it ALL the time!!!!
Question:"Should I gather my nerves and flash him my megawatt smile or would that be initiating contact and thus breaking a rule?"
Flash your pearly whites at the universe! Not directly at him, it might blind and paralyze him. A happy, positive and light and breezy woman is exactly what men want!

Smile in general, as much as possible. Be friendly, happy, flirt BACK, just don't initiate. A woman's smile is MAGIC to a man who is attracted to her, really.

Just live your life, and torture him with your sexy, happy and positive energy. If he chooses to loiter around your solar system, who's to blame him! Enjoy it! He's another fan of a beautiful DreamGirl! How mahvalous, Dahlink!~~~

But stop staring at him, even when his back is turned! Men can smell it when we're into them....be coy, aloof, mysteriously happy and amused.

Shellen even go so far as to say that when you spot an extra handsome or cute guy to LOOK AWAY! Because what men want is what they cannot have, or at least think they can not have. And men who are extraordinarily good-looking are just so used to women staring at them and flirting with them that the only way to differentiate ourselves as DreamGirls is to actually NOT look at a really cute guy! Of course if HE APPROACHES us, then we can and should smile at him.

What men want is a woman who smiles!
It's fun and exciting to feel the 'spark' with a new man! Enjoy it and do TR!

Doing TR only becomes easier and more natural WITH PRACTICE. We must practice and push through the wall of fear and DO them as WRITTEN over and over again. Then, it becomes reflex and natural, because it aligns with our improved level of self-esteem and dignity.

Feeling excitement and fear when we begin to get what we've told ourselves we've always wanted, i.e., hot guys asking us out and circling our DreamGirl essence is a GOOD thing! The fear means it's something new we haven't handled before. All we have to do is tell ourselves, “This is what I have been preparing for. I'm ready. I will handle this. I AM handling this.”

Then, we toss our hair back gracefully and make a soft landing, gently collapsing our magic butterfly wings and smile as we give a man the chance to win us over. Voila.

Whenever a DreamGirl feels "fear," she changes that word to "excitement," and then HANDLES it.

Each new week is an opportunity to get out there. Go to three TREs this week. Men are a-circling and the clock IS ticking. How fortunate and blessed we are to be alive and able to GET OUT THERE!!!!

And remember, your Mr. Right-your future true love and husband- feels exactly the same way!

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Speed Dating Events London

Are you a busy professional, living in London looking to meet new people?

London is a great city to live, work and play, but with the constant hustle and bustle, it can be difficult to meet like-minded people for friendship and more.

So now is the time to take control, and kick start your love life. Speed Dating is ideal for those who lead busy lives and don’t have much time on their hands, but still want to meet new people in a fun, safe environment.

Cupid’s bow runs speed dating events, singles parties and also offer’s dating & relationship coaching in London. At a Cupid’s bow event,you get to come along and flirt and mingle with other singles in a stylish yet comfortable environment.

Speed Dating and singles parties are ideal for those who lead busy lives. If you don’t have much free time but you still want to meet new people in a fun, safe environment, a Cupid’s bow event is perfect for YOU!

What is speed dating?

Born in the USA in the early 90’s, speed dating is now the fastest growing dating craze in the UK.
So many of us are looking for love or want new and easy way to make friends, to speed date is a quick and easy way to kick start your love life. It’s simple, you take an equal amount of guys and girls put them in a comfortable setting and give them 3 minutes to chat to every member of the opposite sex. Women stay seated, and the men will rotate every 3 minutes, this process continues until break time when can get a drink or something to eat from the bar. You’ll be given a score card on arrival and when the dating begins you’ll need to keep record by ticking yes, no or friend after each date.

After the eventmost people stay and catch a few drinks with the other daters. This is a great part of the evening so we really recommend you stick around and mingle.

Usually, within the next 48 hours, we will forward you an email or text message with details of your matches, and how to contact each other, it’s as simple as that.

We know you’ll have great fun at our events, so I hope to see you soon.

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Eight Dating Rules For Women

If you have finally managed to pluck up the courage to ask a guy you've had your eye on for a while out on a date then you will want to be certain that the evening is a success. By understanding and implementing the following dating rules for women you will have more of a chance of developing a deeper relationship.

Dress to Impress

Men are simple beings; you can easily attract their attention and curiosity by dressing in certain ways. This does not necessarily have to be revealing, a man's subconscious is impressed by any well dressed woman. Think about what outfit would be practical for the date, there is no need to go overly formal unless the venue requires you do so.

Conversation

There is always the temptation to open your heart on the first date and give out too much personal information. You can keep a man curious by only revealing a few basic facts about yourself. Understand that it is not so interesting for the man if they simply have to listen to you talk all night. Allow them to participate in the conversation equally. It is not so wise to discuss your past relationships and partners, this will only make the man feel uncomfortable.

Keep the Date Brief

If you curtail the length of the date then this is likely to leave them disappointed but eager to see you again. You can use psychological tricks such as this to ensure you are kept in control of the situation.

Healthy

In the same way that a man is impressed by the clothes a women wears, they would also be attracted to a woman that has a good looking body. You do not need to be ultra slim, just make sure that your skin has a healthy tone and your overall condition is not below average. There is nothing wrong with flaunting some skin if you have the body to do so. This is almost guaranteed to raise his feelings for you.

Punctual

Men are usually more punctual than women. If you arrive more than five minutes late then their mood may have already darkened. Always ensure that you are on time for the date and if you can't be then keep them informed of when you'll be arriving.

Alcohol

Even if you are incredibly nervous on the date it is not such a good idea to down a lot of alcohol to calm your nerves. This may not create a good impression and may even get you into a situation that you later regret.

Compliment

Every man loves to be flattered. Even if are certain that they could not have spent more than twenty minutes getting ready it can still feed their ego if you compliment the way they look.

Bill

Don't be shy, be straightforward and discuss who will pay the bill. If your date volunteers to pay the bill in total, then accept graciously. If not, a good rule on the first date is to "go Dutch", meaning each party pays for themselves.

Finding our soul mate can take a lifetime. Never rush into a relationship unless you feel comfortable doing so. Take your time to get to know the man before allowing the relationship to move forward.

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