The DreamGirl Online Profile. Writing A Good Online Profile Attracts Better Men.

Strike a balance when writing your online dating profile. Writing a good online profile means it should be attractive but NOT sexual, emotional or romantic.
The first thing to consider for your online profile is your Username. Your Username and photo will be the first thing to grab a man's attention. So no boring id’s like "Jane 2256"-save that for your home or office. Your screen name should be anonymous yet physically descriptive. Usernames help men build a visual picture.

So write your Username in Bold or CAPITAL letters, think of two or three words that fit your physical description or best feature. Here’s some good examples:

•DazzlingSmile36 •GreenEyedLady54 •RadiantRedhead26 •TallBlonde44

Don’t invite sex pests by writing "SexonLegs," "BustyBlonde" or "BootyBaby." You’re a DreamGirl right? DreamGirl’s don’t need to sell themselves in this way. As a DreamGirl, writing a good online profile means conveying your prestige, confidence and self-esteem. You want nice, quality men to email you-men who are genuinely looking to meet and date women in real life.

You want your Username to be light and breezy, a real breath of fresh air, yet physically descriptive. All men have a 'type' of woman they prefer. Your Username and your photo helps attract men who like YOUR "type."

Sometimes you will be asked to fill out a banner headline or tagline. A short blurb to give an extra taster of yourself. Once again it’s the same rule of thumb, nothing too heavy, sexual or romantic. You want to show that you’re a happy-go-lucky, healthy, feminine lady with a real zing for life who doesn't spend much time online. Writing a good online profile as a DreamGirl means you convey that your life is busy and fun already.

You could use a hobby to describe yourself, such as "Outdoor Girl Loves Fresh Air and Adventure." Something fun, light and breezy. DON'T put "Desperate Housewife seeks Soul mate." Good men will RUN from that. Don’t be too emotional-it will scare men away. Don’t put something like "No Time Wasters or Players" either. DreamGirls are POSITIVE :-) You don’t want to come across as a man-hater (even if that’s how you feel inside). DreamGirls always convey a friendly, positive and upbeat energy when writing a good online profile, even in their tagline.

The next stage will be your actual profile. Some dating sites want you to put a long description. My advice is to keep it to the very minimum wording. Always keep your description short and very sweet. Don’t get into a twist about writing it, some women write an epic only leaving out only what they had for breakfast that morning! Men find this boring and a sign of desperation and neediness in women.

Think about when you're browsing through profiles, do you have the time or even inclination to read through a long, usually boring blurb? No! So the same goes for DreamGirls when writing a good online profile.

You want your online profile to be interesting and truthful but leaving the man wanting more.

Here’s a good profile:

RedHeadBeauty36:

"Hi there, I’m 36, 5 ft 8” and weigh 63 kilos(139 lbs.). I live in Edinburgh. I’m single and have a BA in Public Relations. I workout regularly and value that in others. I’m fun, honest and easygoing and I love hill climbing, running, dancing, travel and the arts. Indian and Italian foods are my favourites. I’d like to meet a man who is single, fun and kind with that all-important GSOH between the ages of 35 – 45."

Remember to be honest with your appearance and age. There is no point in lying about something when you will meet that person face to face.

When writing a good online profile, don’t sound desperate in your ad, such as "I’ve tried everything to meet Mr. Right. Now I’ve resorted to OLD!” It will repel any sane man away. Basically your description should be light and breezy too.

Some dating profiles ask you how much you earn and how much you want your partner to earn. If possible leave this blank. You don’t want some sponger clamping onto you or for you to sound like a gold digger.

If the site asks what type of relationship you're looking for leave it blank OR pick the most neutral box, e.g. friendship. Dating online for DreamGirls is the same as dating in real life. Less is more and we always remain mysterious.

Writing a good online profile includes the all important deal clincher, the photo. This will be the number 1 reason he will check you out and choose to send you an email. The photo is the delicious nectar that attracts the bee, so you’ve got to get it right.

YOU MUST POST A PHOTO! Otherwise it's like going to a party with a bag over your head.

Select a clear, flattering head shot, one where you are showing your dazzling smile.

If you can afford it, get your photo taken professionally; after all you’re an investment, right?

You can also post one other full-length photo, but that’s it. Don’t set up a picture gallery. Don’t have other people in the photo with you. Don’t be a dot in the distance. Don’t wear sunglasses. And lastly don’t post a picture of Angelina Jolie. I think the guys may know it’s not you!!!

Less is ALWAYS more when writing a good online profile. Keep it short, positive, upbeat and leave men wanting to know more about you.